Saturday, January 3, 2009

Re-Connecting...

I realized a few things....one of the most difficult aspects in life is to re-connect with people. There are times when distance creeps in, and it definitely is hard to bridge the gap

The reasons may either be because the other person does not give you as much as importance as before, or it could probably be that the other person has found someone who he/she finds to be a better option to invest time in. Or it could just be my perception. But yes it does seem like it when you tend to miss the familiar feeling of comfort level that you expected to share with the person. It does not happen always, but it does happen a lot.

The distance probably helps you to prioritize things, sort out things but at the end of it, one sometimes tends to think whether it was all worth the trouble.....to an individual it does well, but I still have to decide otherwise.
It all goes to say that a rope may snap, and may be retied, but the knot in between is something that is inevitable.

Another thing that I fail to understand is how people tend to compare two or more individuals. Esp. friends. I think I would top the list when it comes to having one of the most versatile / weird friend's network, wherein one friend cannot stand the other.
I probably sound like some Martyr, but I guess this is probably one thing I learnt from an old friend - To try and look at positives of a person ( I'm still trying....and I am trying hard - It is not easy! )

I guess this is all I have to say for now :). Will soon post some more of my so called ' GYAN'.
Before I sign off - Happy New Year!! :)

2 comments:

prashant said...

re "connecting".............
i don't think so that it is difficult to connect to people whom you really want too......
Yes it matters when you are not interested in or you don't want to...

invest time in...........
In this environment, only an investor can survive in and not a speculator ...who invest for short period and moves out with a profit or loss....
but an investor looks at the broader aspect of life and will difinitely move out with a profit not in real terms i mean........and here he would have invested time and left for the market and the situation to decide the final output with a time horizon of more than a year or so....this may look like more of a fundamental and technical analysis session...heheheh..

Perception....
Its difinition itself explains it..........

invisible knot is wat matters at the end.........and something which cannot be avoided.

"To try and look at positives of a person ( I'm still trying....and I am trying hard - It is not easy!)"- ---completely agreed---


carry on sharing your so called "GYAN"....will try to comment as an when time permits.....
GOOD SHOW............

govindaraj k said...

wow that was complete bouncer..