tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16707723393247647572024-02-21T11:11:18.303+00:00Life as I walk along...Thoughts,Opinions,Girl,Woman,Abstract,Colour,Emotion,Facts,
Rhythm,Music,Art,Books,Sport,Nature,People,Places,Animals,
GOD,Spirituality..........LIFE!!Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-73629095480640696142013-07-06T23:39:00.000+01:002013-07-06T23:42:42.555+01:00Count your blessings...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: Noteworthy-Light; font-size: 15px; line-height: 22px; text-align: -webkit-auto;"><span style="color: #45818e;">Although a firm believer in God and the Law of Karma - there have been innumerable instances where my faith has been challenged, my mind has waivered and hope was lost.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #45818e;">Every time I bounced back - I realised that God closes one door but opens many more doors for you to consider. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #45818e;">Yet there are times where, none of the doors that have opened opened matter. You turn blind to all of them but the one closed door was so dear that it is difficult to let go - Such is life and I guess the whole process of bouncing back reaffirms faith, induces positivity and completely heals.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e;">A month back- I was a broken soul.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e;"> I lost my uncle all of a sudden - he was a pillar of support. An angel in disguise - my amazing genie and a humble soul.</span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e;">Life seemed unfair. He hadn't hit his fifty fifth birthday and I thought he had a lot left to see in life. and then all of a sudden, it was all over and the world had lost a man with a heart of Gol.d. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e;">The state of denial prevailed for a while - and sometimes still ceases to depart, followed by a deep sense of betrayal. The mind was filled with anger and sorrow and I questioned the good intentions of the supernatural power. I refused to acknowledge his presence for a couple of days, tried to hate him, ignore him, turn indifferent towards him - only for me to think of him more and even more. At times it is amazing how strong just the mere thoughts can make one feel. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e;">They say - what ever happens, happens for the best - I am yet to see the better in this instance - the best being far fetched. At such times, life feels empty , vacuum - and it is amazing to see how selfish and fickle the mind can be even in such a situation. I probably am being very selfish for my own sake - it was the sadness for myself for having lost someone so dear to me prevailing over the fact of what probably was best for him. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e;">But although I realise it and maybe try and convince myself that it was for the best - these situations stand the test of time, only to reaffirm that we mortals have our limitations and will always tend to be emotional fools.... The departed soul is probably watching me, and grinning away at my folly.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #45818e;">Realization sets that in that I am probably a blessed person to have had someone so important in my life. The less fortunate wouldn't have even had the chance to feel this way about someone. The message rings in my head loud and clear - COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS!!</span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e;">Memories are all that are left and I hold on to them tight as ever for that remains mine for now and forever. </span></div>
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<span style="color: #45818e;">The heart tries to accept it was for the best - but the mind stays open- only for the bundle of contradictions to continue to unfold. I stare ahead with earnest hope for all the better things that life has in store!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #45818e;">Gaya</span></div>
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<div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-73392537976048306222012-11-29T12:05:00.000+00:002012-11-29T14:16:00.064+00:00<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">As they smiled - brightly as ever</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Seated comfortable in spacious chairs</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Their inviting looks - filling the air</span><br /><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I could almost hear them whisper</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Amidst the loud travelling banter </span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Tempting was how they started to seem</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Their curves as fresh as they could have been</span><br /><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I cursed them and firmly responded -</span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-small;"><i><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Do whatever you think it takes..</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">But you will not get me today!</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">My mind has travelled far beyond,</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">And does not intend to return for long!</span></i></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">All they could manage was a chuckle</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Watching my feet as they dragged me</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">My heart desperate to exchange plesantaries</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Depriving my mind of its newly defined mantle</span><br /><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Their grin of conviction got on to me, </span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Only to convince me to give them another chance</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I decided to stop by to say a quick hello</span><br /><span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">As always - they made me happier than before</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #783f04; font-family: Georgia; font-size: x-small;"> Gaya</span></div>
</div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-1544066923438658532012-03-18T00:46:00.003+00:002012-03-18T00:57:00.615+00:002 months in the UK - random musings......part I<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"><span style="color: #38761d;">Almost two months in the United Kingdom, and here I go.....</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Scotland - Edinburgh - heavenly....I feel as if I am reliving my Enid Blyton days, each time I visit the place. My respect for Enid Blyton has simply grown and I highly doubt whether any other writer could articulate so beautifully in their writing.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">J.K. Rowling proved to be a blessing in disguise to the Elephants cafe.....the cafe today has bagged a spot in all the tourist pamphlets in Edinburgh as the birth place of Harry Potter!,and therefore is making some big money.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">The English almost despise the Scottish - they think they are dumb! And the Scottish think the english to be way too snooty. ( sounds like Ind - Pak eh?? )</span><br />
<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhG3tQy8vMZYbGiSV9BOomcw4PiReFXlFgPqT2oj72e65sB1VinQPMV3Jq2zn_gKvjsrXXyFaocz02BA1pDZuJ0jrz9S0Upw62AyrkI97Pe29s43VKXinsUjqBUUFI9ckAdnt8pTQWyLa1r/s1600/Blue%2520Angel%2520Face%2520With%2520Wicked%2520Grin_AG-031.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img aea="true" border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhG3tQy8vMZYbGiSV9BOomcw4PiReFXlFgPqT2oj72e65sB1VinQPMV3Jq2zn_gKvjsrXXyFaocz02BA1pDZuJ0jrz9S0Upw62AyrkI97Pe29s43VKXinsUjqBUUFI9ckAdnt8pTQWyLa1r/s1600/Blue%2520Angel%2520Face%2520With%2520Wicked%2520Grin_AG-031.jpg" /></a></div><span style="color: #38761d;">Whatever be the case, I think the Scottish are friendly - well at least they look it and seem it - (cannot quite say it with any certainity considering I barely understand what they speak )....at times seriously wonder whether my English teachers went wrong!!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Who says there aren't beggars in the UK!! Talk about a well groomed lady sitting beside the cathedral, wrapped in an expensive looking Woollen shawl,hugging a sweet looking pet dog and with tears in her eyes. I was astonished to see the same lady sitting in the same place an hour later, with a latest best selling novel in her hand and a Starbucks/ frasers coffee glass in front of her to collect the coins. How cushy can life get - I enjoy my novel, while people fund me to do so!! But I must give it to those young lads at the station subways, for the wonderful music that they play to earn their bread....some of them show sheer brilliance in their music and they by no means could be categorized as beggars!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">I need a place to stay....I go to the rental office, they ask me for my bank account details. I go to the bank to open an account, and they ask me for a UK address proof, my rental lease contract copy or utility bills in my name ....What would poor me who just landed in London a couple of days back do? I explained to the executive that I am married to so and so person and the contract is in his name, and here is our marriage certificate for verification. The response - but that is in your husbands name, we would require it or utility bills on your name... (me to myself - what a donut!!!.....where in the world would i get those after being here for 2 days!) </span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Glad that I came prepared, I hand over my passport. The executive then asks me for another proof. I provide her with my driving license, but apparently that isn't accepted. I then provide her with my election I'd card issued in India. But apparently that is not accepted either......Appalled!! And confused!! And felt completely degraded ....I couldn't help but wonder, whether this was all the respect that the card issued by the Government of India had!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">London is one place, where banks will hesitate to convert your husbands account into a joint account....you see they are so concerned that the wife will choose to run away with all the hard earned fortune of her husband, when they get divorced. (and we being such dimwits in their eyes, are not aware of the fact that every advance account would imply a service fee of seventeen pounds.) Believe it or not, it took Hubby dearest and me almost an hour, spread over two weeks to get the customer service executive to convert the account into a joint account......here is the irony - the customer service chic happened to be an Indian who just had just moved into the UK a couple of years before...</span><br />
<span style="color: #38761d;">Talk about manners, alright - we Asians or Indians relatively lack the finesse and the smooth talking abilities that comes naturally to a majority of the Brits.......but they sure are way better at blowing their nose ( LOUDLY and CONTINOUSLY ) and letting the whole world know how bad a cold they have - oh I stand corrected - 'FLU' it is.......wonder if that is considered gentlemanly or lady like!!</span><br />
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<span style="color: #38761d;">Pink hair,pornographic telephone booths, ladies wearing almost swimsuits on a chilly friday night where the temperature hits 0 degree, a license for television, contracts for everything, safety pins for 2 pounds :O ( in India it is Rs. 2), dirty roads here and there ( sadly some of the dirtiest areas happen to be inhabited by Asians- Indians and Lankans), same fares to commute by rail or air....Welcome to London :P</span><br />
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<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #38761d;">I guess,this post turned out to be a little too cynical, but I must admit that London is beautiful the way it is.....the weather, the greenery, the Victorian architecture, the typical Brit breakfast, the interiors and the food at the pubs ( minus the alcohol ofcoAurse),the roadside coffee shops, the lovely breeze, a pleasant Sunday morning, the amazing variety of boots that you find here would bring a smile on anyone's face.......but all said and done India is better in so many ways...you sure do realize the value of home when you are away from it.......keep watching this space for part two and the sequels that would follow (hopeful that the inspiration to update my blog strikes more frequently) ....I will try and be a little more nice to the Brits there.......for now, I sign off the Brit way.....cheers folks!!.....bye now ( in the singy songy tone) :P</span></div><div style="text-align: right;"><span style="color: #38761d;"> </span></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #38761d;">Gaya</span></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-62408058363122116862011-02-06T07:17:00.004+00:002011-02-06T18:15:41.697+00:00<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >A vague thought- farfetched and beyond possibility <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >Smiles, a sense of relief….things seem light. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >I reckon it is the power of faith<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >That instantly makes one’s life bright. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p><br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >God sure does have his strange ways!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >To teach and take you to bay<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >To show you – life is all shades of grey<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >Not black and white as you wish and pray.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p><br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >You try to forget, you try to forgive,<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >Nothing really seems to happen<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >When you do it for your sake, for<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >Somewhere along, it invariably would be fake<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p><br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >The day you forgive for God’s sake,<span style=""> </span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >And surrender with all you can give,<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >Hoping things in life get even. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >Things suddenly seem to brighten. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p><br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >The strange air you that you then feel,<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >Is something no one can steal!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >He sure does make time heal<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >With love, learning and the best deal!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p> </o:p></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p><br /></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 28px;font-size:85%;" > </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 28px;font-size:85%;" >When you look behind,</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >All you can manage is a subtle smile</span> <span style="font-family: arial;">:) </span><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >,<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >Try and control your wandering mind<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" >And leap towards the next mile! <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p> </o:p></span><span style="line-height: 150%;font-size:85%;" ><o:p> </o:p></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 28px;font-size:85%;" ><span style=""> </span></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: left; line-height: 150%; font-family: georgia;" align="left"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 28px;font-size:85%;" ><span style=""> </span>Gaya</span></p><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-7952288627261405392010-12-29T19:45:00.006+00:002010-12-30T18:06:39.627+00:00Adios 2010!!<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:georgia;" >2010 has been a tough teacher! :) Nevertheless, I am grateful to all the reinforcement, affirmation and reiteration that it had to offer. It certainly has contributed to my growth as an individual. </span></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><span style="font-family:georgia;">Definitely not my best year but I am sure I have been luckier than many others!</span>!</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"> <span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0); font-weight: bold;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">The biggest learnings, that I could pen down, even in the state of sleep deprivation would be : </span></span></span><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0); font-weight: bold;"><br />We are never alone. God is always walking besides us. Give him a chance to speak, and be his audience. You will get your answers. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0); font-weight: bold;">Friendship is one of the world's most beautiful relationship. Cherish it.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 102, 0); font-weight: bold;">True friends are those who stand by you at all times, pull you up when you are astray from the right path, empathize when they cannot do much, but help you wad</span></span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhueO1lEnqc0TDIcRqz8va0TFmGBiNzBqDMXUv2eGQf5Z3j81obq0liZyRfxnIdAhan7NFRfjGCP_KLRFQpI0rdi1LfuPd9VkfZJD16hoHofmPCUPgdb198qd0HhgBrFRhsKUtxhsrgHqj5/s1600/goodbye-2010-hello-2011.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 300px; height: 152px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhueO1lEnqc0TDIcRqz8va0TFmGBiNzBqDMXUv2eGQf5Z3j81obq0liZyRfxnIdAhan7NFRfjGCP_KLRFQpI0rdi1LfuPd9VkfZJD16hoHofmPCUPgdb198qd0HhgBrFRhsKUtxhsrgHqj5/s320/goodbye-2010-hello-2011.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5556195751538186498" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 102, 0); font-weight: bold;">e your way without getting judgemental about you or any one else.<br />Treasure them!</span> </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255); font-weight: bold;">Sometimes the best way to be happy in life is to let go. </span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204); font-weight: bold;">Treasure those people to whom you really matter; not for their selfish reasons but out of good will for you.</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;">Emotions are like glass. Very brittle. Handle with care. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 153); font-weight: bold;">Faith, Prayer and hope are the three pillars on which life revolves. </span> </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0); font-weight: bold;">Life is not about yourself and your happiness. Make an attempt to make a difference to people who need you. Life would be worth living. </span> </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;">It is always better to go somewhere where you are wanted rather than go somewhere where you want to.</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 255); font-weight: bold;">Always remember - Life may have been slightly unfair to you. But you have always been more fortunate than a lot many. </span> </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 255);">Health is the biggest wealth. Not many are blessed with it. Learn to appreciate it. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51); font-weight: bold;">After life, a good family is the biggest blessing that you could be born with. Never let go of them. </span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 102, 0); font-weight: bold;">Respect others for their decisions/opinions, though they may not be right or in line with your expectation. </span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(102, 102, 102); font-weight: bold;font-size:85%;" ><br />If you judge yourself by your intentions, do the same with others. Do not judge them on their actions. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0); font-weight: bold;">Will end with my first learning - </span> <span style="color: rgb(0, 153, 0); font-weight: bold;">We are never alone. God is always walking besides us. Give him a chance to speak, and be his audience. Have faith in him. The Holy Spirit would always be a guiding force. God will take care!</span> </span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0); font-weight: bold;">A huge list, if due consideration is given to the fact that I have been sleep deprived. Nevertheless, do add to the list, if you have any interesting learnings to share.<br /><br /><br />Gaya<br /></span></span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-87346427456599679982010-08-02T17:23:00.004+01:002010-08-02T17:30:43.278+01:00In anticipation.......<span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" >A rainy evening here again...</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" >The clouds draping the sky</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" >Beautiful yet filled with gloom</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" >Life awaiting its bloom</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /><br /></span> <span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" >There always is beauty in joy...</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />Something that sets the heart cry</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /></span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" >Whoever thought of beauty in pain</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />To be quiet, simple and plain</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /><br /></span> <span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" >Your mind feels fragile</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />Everything seems futile</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /></span> <span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" >They say…</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >... </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />Embrace life with a smile </span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />Things will pass by in a while</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />Slowly you will realize</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />Life does not generalize</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />That time certainly does heal</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />And ensures you get the best deal</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" ><br /><br /></span> <span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:Calibri;font-size:100%;" ><br />Simply hang on in grace</span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(153, 102, 51);font-family:times new roman;font-size:100%;" ><br />With a smile on your face…..</span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-32101909606913214192010-06-18T07:41:00.004+01:002010-06-18T11:19:48.615+01:00RANDOM SCRIBBLES OF A WISER SOUL!!!<span style="font-family:georgia;color:#336666;">It has been a while that I pen down my thoughts......Today is probably not the best of days for the same....but making an effort sure does no harm!<br /></span><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#336666;">Ironical yet practical....there are certain things that you may or may not want to happen. They may or may not be the best things to happen.....but once they have happened...often feels/seems it was how it was meant to be. It is very strange though that once you look at what has happened, you feel glad in a way whatever it is....though it may totally contradict what you initially wished for or anticipated....<br /><br />The experience could be awesome, bitter sweet or different in its own way.......the interpretations could be totally subjective and a reality check of perception is often a rude shock!! But then today as I pen down my thoughts, I can’t help but get convinced that there are situations in every person’s life which should have been dealt with differently. Here is where I contradict myself as I am convinced that it is a situation which makes a person act in a particular manner! And here is where I think that life is so much related to mathematics. Probability at its best I presume!! (My cousin bro – a genius in math would be smirking as he hears me say this, but for today I would give in!) :-D<br /><br />So does it imply that with time you change? Possible that you would want to rethink about a particular event.....but more than often I think more than often your basic intuition (If you have reasonably good intuitive prowess! ) about a person is never wrong! A person may in your opinion be the best or not so good which again is your perception! Often we have the tendency to get negative when things do not happen.....negativity may be about situations, people, perceptions and also about certain events which turn out to be uncertain/ unexpected or contrary to what one anticipated! Is it wrong again? Well I don’t think so either....as it is human psychology to get angry!!! But is it worth it?? …I don’t believe so, as life is short and there is no use venting your anger on anyone! As I think, when you are sixty and you look back at your life, there may be materialistic regrets but am sure otherwise, there would be a lot to cherish, if looked at from the correct perspective! Why sixty…the same could be even as on today’s date!<br /><br />Some say do what you think is right! :) Easily said! But what I think to be right may be wrong to someone else and vice versa.....it is virtually impossible to make everyone happy.........so here do you prioritize.....or compromise........Depends on the situation, person/persons involved and so many dimensions which one may think to be essential!! So here again I am back to my state of ponderance....<br />Is it right or wrong?? I am incapacitated to justify that.<br /><br />I often have had discussions with my brother who believes in Karma and the existence of a parallel world! and the fact that what goes around comes around!!! The philosophy/logic being there there is a parallel world wherein there exists a clone of you. Apparently whatever good happens to you here, a subsequent bad thing happen to your clone in the parallel universe.....Sounds extremely fascinating. However tempted I may feel to acknowledge the same, I find it close to ridiculous to do the same, as looking at the world of good that has happened to me till date, I find it impossible to even think of imagine the extent of negativity would be there with the poor Gayatri in the parallel world!<br /><br />Further complicating it....I happened to spend an afternoon with my super close friend( or should I say family/sister ) at Barista (I am not too fond of coffee shops - as...I prefer my mom's homemade filter coffee any day!) - An outlet which I don’t visit often, but have always had a good time on the rare occasions- thanks to the company!!! This time it turned out to be the magic den in a different way!!!! I happened to be pondering over a certain decision and my loyalties on a particular subject! I played the devil’s advocate with myself which I always resort to when I need to know whether I am sure of what I am putting my foot into.<br /><br />And this super close friend of mine was particularly irritated with me for the same .As we often do, we started talking and talking even more and that is when I happened to tell her…..today I feel a certain degree to weirdness, relief….. Like I said I was pondering over a certain decision that I had to take after being in a spot for long. ……. Probably it was a surge of relief that I had done what I thought was to be right. She asked me, do you feel surreal and as If you did not take a call. I had to agree that it was something that made me take the call!! I don’t know what it was and I was angry with myself for it. Why with myself? Because, as the usual way I had gotten myself into a mess without even realizing it!!<br /><br />Last evening, I happened to meet this friend/philosopher of mine again……and I just narrated a couple of incidents, communication and conversations which had given me a good kick on my backside!! Again it was a hit on my slightly inflated ego, that I could be so wrong about something!!<br /><br />But nevertheless, we could not help but grin and feel; that it was a real time learning experience, great moments and am of course thankful to all the people involved!<br /><br />Phew…… life seemed to be crazy and its corporate best! Today when I think of yesterday, I can simply smile to myself and say – “ALL IZZ WELL“:-DD</span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-82858705802210180212010-04-11T19:46:00.001+01:002010-04-12T07:21:41.035+01:00NIASoM ......Re-Living Memories<div align="justify"><span style="color:#006600;">Phewww!!! It’s April 12th! The same day a year back, I was at NIASoM......the place that taught me so much....about life, culture, people, values, religion, human psychology.....the list probably never seems to end.....But today when I look back, the two years just seem to be a dream. They just went by without me even realizing it!<br /><br />I cannot help but feel the nostalgia that prevailed on campus the same time around last year....people were running all around the hostel busy with packing. Emotions were high. The one thing that I remember the most is the way we were circulating our most hated uniform shirts for people to scribble on. That white shirt of mine....was something I detested and tried to avoid all the time. Today, it probably is one of my most priced and precious possessions!<br /></span><span style="color:#006600;"><strong><br />(Will soon upload a pic of it:-P)</strong><br /><br />Ironically, there were many days, when I sat alone in my balcony just staring out, at the beautiful view. I used to tell myself that I should ensure that this period should not seem a dream, but in vain. When I look back, it all seems a happy dream with lovely moments to cherish. The late night Pizza's in the balcony with my roomies, the water fights (which I managed to conveniently escape), literally being dragged out of bed every morning by my roomie, perpetually cribbing about the never ending laundry, constant exchange of movies through IP Messenger and most importantly - getting caught by the warden for being too noisy or being seen on the other side of the LOC, the serious and solemn conversations simply keep flashing across my eyes, every time I think of hostel life. The birthday parties, cricket matches, the sports week, Friday Feast were so much fun in a way. How could I ever forget the so called study tour to Bangkok! – Probably the MOST happening and talked about tour of my life so far. In fact, on second thoughts, I feel even the horrible Biryani that we got on Wednesdays and the Sabudana Khichdi on Thrusday mornings to be bearable in their own way.<br /><br />A couple of days back, I was having a conversation with a dear friend, and we got into a discussion on how people who are our batch mates are doing....a few of them already married, a few waiting to tie the knot. It sure does feel good to know that people have moved on in life towards bigger commitments. But it is strange when I think that time can do such wonders - Just one year has warranted so many changes!!! But it sure does feel very good to know that each one is doing well in their respective place.<br /><br />As I write, I cannot help but smile to myself. Though I miss the days, I realize that the take away’s that NIASoM had to offer me compensate for every moment I miss. . It is often said, you often realize the true value (Intrinsic value in the typical Management term) of something when you actually don’t have it. I would vouch for it, as I remember the time when I went back to NIA for some training with my colleagues. My eyes desperately searched for my batch mates, friends, with whom I had spent two glorious years of my life. But they were nowhere to be seen then. I tried ignoring it but then realized that every place on campus brought back memories of people, moments and the time spent together. It was only then when the truth hit me – and I realized that it is just not about the place, but it is about the people who make the place what it is.<br /><br />NIASoM has changed my outlook towards life in many ways. It has made me realize how better life could be, if one learns to ignore negatives and capitalize on positives! I am indebted to everyone who has been a part of those two lovely years of my life! </span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-55258104528818927792010-03-13T17:27:00.002+00:002010-03-13T18:15:43.816+00:00Bird Watching!!!! :-PPPP<div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">Nature is one thing that has always fascinated me. Residing on the sixth floor, is probably a boon in disguise, as I get innumerable opportunities to observe the behaviour of birds by simply looking out of my window. </span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">For some strange reason, the flower pots on my window sill have been the birthplace of probably a hundreds of pigeons till date. Pigeons in my opinion are the dumbest from among the bird species!I can confidently say this because I can never forget one that sat on a coca cola bottle lid for about two weeks, thinking it was the egg laid by her! ( The egg laid had probably served as breakfast to some crow/eagle/kite, when left unattended by the pigeon) </span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">Nevertheless, I have something very nice to share with you today! Pigeons I agree are messy and dumb, but then the sight of mom teaching her little ones to fly is an adorable sight. It's so strange, but then birds too,just like human beings need to undergo training!!!! The mother/father holds the baby bird with its beak and tries to lift it. The baby bird in return tries to spread its wings and makes an attempt to fly. This process lasts for probably around two weeks till the baby bird learns to fly.</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">I have attached herewith a video that I managed to capture of a mother teaching her little ones to fly on my Kitchen window sill a couple of days back. Though I get to watch it quite often, each time it seems more beautiful and I am left without doubt, there could never ever be a better artist than the almighty hi</span><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">mself!!!! Though my photography/videography skills are quite pathetic, even for an amateur, am sure, you would enjoy watching this one. So here it is........</span><br /><br /><br /><iframe allowfullscreen='allowfullscreen' webkitallowfullscreen='webkitallowfullscreen' mozallowfullscreen='mozallowfullscreen' width='396' height='328' src='https://www.blogger.com/video.g?token=AD6v5dyKRMnHMAE-tHPDxtZDuzeSdfeA7qqx2rgi24OOCAJstJCewDK_oOPaZy-H7GQ_iLDCdyJXV1ayh242c6lDrw' class='b-hbp-video b-uploaded' frameborder='0'></iframe><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 102, 51);">PS. Note the bruise on one of the baby's head.....it happened due to a squabble between the two kiddos!!!!!</span><br /></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-69268412195313063362010-03-11T06:48:00.004+00:002010-03-11T07:06:39.080+00:00BUDGET<div align="justify"><span style="color:#cc6600;">Yet another ordinary day at work! I was pondering over some stuff, when I was passed a sheet.</span></div><div align="justify"><br /><span style="color:#cc6600;">It read <strong>“Budget “.</strong> As my neighbor passed the sheet to me, there was an instant frown which appeared on my face. The last thing that I wanted to do wasstart my day reading opinions of media/politicians /economists/academicians / cynics on what they think the budget is and what it is not!!!</span></div><div align="justify"><br /><span style="color:#cc6600;">Nevertheless, I thought I would give it a quick read. To my pleasant surprise, it was not the usual analysis by economists or the complaints of the ever ready cynics It was a metaphoric version of the Budget, where the budget have been very differently related to a person’s life and the virtues/characteristics which govern it.<br /><br />Though I have a difference of opinion on certain statements, I thought I should share it with everyone. So Read on…..<br /><br /></span><span style="color:#339999;"><strong>BUDGET</strong><br /></span><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#339999;"><em>Birth is our opening balance<br />Death, our closing balance.<br />Prejudiced views are<br />our liabilities,<br />Creative ideas<br />and good deeds, assets.<br />Heart is our current asset,<br />Soul, our fixed asset,<br />Brain, a fixed deposit.<br />Thinking, our current account<br />Goodwill and achievements<br />are our capital,<br />Character and morals, our stock-in-trade,<br />Friends, our general reserves,<br />Values and behavior<br />our goodwill,<br />Patience is interest earned,<br />Love, our dividend,<br />Children, our bonus issues,<br />Education, a brand,<br />Knowledge is our investment.<br />Profit and loss is karma earned.<br />Before final assessment (death),<br />Balance your sheet.<br /></em></span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-38748085970641715192010-02-15T06:49:00.007+00:002010-02-15T07:05:02.077+00:00Sighh!!!!!!<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#993300;">Time seriously seems to fly. Every year we make it a point to visit Chennai and meet my cousins in April. It is that one time of the year that I long for. The two months of summer holidays spent every year for the last twenty years (from what I can recollect) is something that has knit our lives so closely that, today as my cousin bro is all excited about tying the knot, I find it extremely strange to see the someone I have known since two decades all grown up and set to move on to a new and different phase in life.<br />Though totally excited for him, I find it impossible to cease my amusement!! I am of course delighted at the prospect of addition of a new person to our once upon a time notorious gang, but then it does take me a while to actually believe what I am seeing!!!! </span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ8zF6QTzVo9f2COlBtFmOr1u7YU-ZVXXefjwkH9s-UioykyRTOtM13lNQw-1ajpXUb-dP1zaykL7SP8LFA874BKr1ps4Qd3RReTcSSZmvOah3ckrm8J95QdanG5aTLgRQqHOn-FXvGBjz/s1600-h/CA35LZ9R.jpg"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#993300;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438362007687980002" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 125px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 128px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiJ8zF6QTzVo9f2COlBtFmOr1u7YU-ZVXXefjwkH9s-UioykyRTOtM13lNQw-1ajpXUb-dP1zaykL7SP8LFA874BKr1ps4Qd3RReTcSSZmvOah3ckrm8J95QdanG5aTLgRQqHOn-FXvGBjz/s320/CA35LZ9R.jpg" border="0" /></span></a><span style="font-family:georgia;"><br /><br /></span><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#993300;">I try to move on….but then to my astonishment I still find myself looking forward to mid-April, which is when our yearly trips to Chennai and Srirangam were scheduled. The crystal maze that we played using carrom coins as crystals, or be it cricket in the small veranda behind our house….everything has extremely cherishable moments attached to it. The late night talks, movies and the loud music that irked all the elders……. The routine of visiting relatives and getting pampered was so much fun in a way. In addition to the fun at Chennai, there was the yearly trip to Srirangam too. The regular visit to bathe in the waters of the Kaveri, the routine visits to the most beautiful temple I have ever seen and ofcourse the friends out there is something that still lingers in my mind, at the very thought of summer vacations!! Jumping from one terrace to another, playing traditional indoor games like Dayakattai ( Dice), Paandi ( known as Tipri) and so many more games.<br />The icing on the cake always involved troubling dear old grandpa to buy all of us ice-cream after conveniently having stopped the state ice-cream fellow who drove past our house at around three every noon.<br /><br />I still remember the manner in which we used to always push the little ones to go to bed, so that we could have our teenage discussions. The same kiddos (who simply DETEST being called that) seem to have grown up, and are in the verge of entering into their graduation, and are extremely adept at pulling my leg about anything under the sun!<br /><br />I simply do miss my days when I used to worry about getting late to school, getting remarks in my school calendar, feeling bad when teachers scolded me, forgetting to do my homework!! All that seem so trivial now and I really cannot help but chuckle and smirk when my 7 year old little cousin very solemnly declares that she has a quiz or a test in school or that she would be reprimanded if she does not carry the craft material as instructed!!! It is ironical indeed but then yes, even after cribbing so much, I still would say that life is fun the way it is now too!!! Though everyone seems to have grown up, we still look forward to meeting up and having a good laugh at all that we possibly can!<br /></span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMqZqzEKNkrrMr2_KAfGJrNLygi3NkaRc5QtLWKKBJDSwTgSLzENWW6ltXa5x1IMqQX_rKRdSOR6C3Uy94mVbSW-Ykj7yIyA-OUKFgAdgYTDLhHmmeONJJSaCpBc025gRqQs1gURspMhKe/s1600-h/11412-Busy-Multi-Tasking-Assistant-Secretary-Woman-Typing-Filing-Organizing-And-Taking-Phone-Calls-Clipart-Illustration.jpg"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#993300;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438359334050048946" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 238px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 184px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgMqZqzEKNkrrMr2_KAfGJrNLygi3NkaRc5QtLWKKBJDSwTgSLzENWW6ltXa5x1IMqQX_rKRdSOR6C3Uy94mVbSW-Ykj7yIyA-OUKFgAdgYTDLhHmmeONJJSaCpBc025gRqQs1gURspMhKe/s320/11412-Busy-Multi-Tasking-Assistant-Secretary-Woman-Typing-Filing-Organizing-And-Taking-Phone-Calls-Clipart-Illustration.jpg" border="0" /></span></a><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#993300;"><br />But the fact remains that, April henceforth, would not imply two months of summer vacation – but simply year ending and year beginning chores at work!!! Sigh!!!! Now that I have been jolted back to reality, I think it is high time that I get back to my work; else I probably would be permanently given the privilege of enjoying holidays – Courtesy my Boss! </span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8Qqi8FjLBOLaPPU1LoAgA9dUm5r13klZQmrVjfUpgmYe-Ch6eAy0OnVsTN8c_1Lb6GtU4HGZ3_sLylxJf9lMBQQ4HrB8TKFWTpsn29V7vn7XiUrfJih0NNlaEiE1nLncDZuKfuDapdmZ7/s1600-h/sigh.jpg"><span style="font-family:georgia;color:#993300;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5438359710720418322" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 111px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 95px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh8Qqi8FjLBOLaPPU1LoAgA9dUm5r13klZQmrVjfUpgmYe-Ch6eAy0OnVsTN8c_1Lb6GtU4HGZ3_sLylxJf9lMBQQ4HrB8TKFWTpsn29V7vn7XiUrfJih0NNlaEiE1nLncDZuKfuDapdmZ7/s320/sigh.jpg" border="0" /></span></a><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="color:#993300;"><br /><br />So let me go and bury myself into my work, and you could probably come back and check this space when you have nothing to</span> <span style="color:#993300;">do!!!!</span></span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-37636383449374000102010-01-20T07:32:00.003+00:002010-01-20T07:44:06.848+00:00Welcome 2010!!! :)<div><span style="color:#006600;">As we move on in life, we learn a lot through people. The optimism and positivity that we encounter in course of our interaction with people, is something that has the power to change perspectives, approaches and also a person’s outlook towards life. <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7Ebl6cm1Mmu2B1F_TdzhiYbftT3GlFjufOuOnAdWEJMOh2ACRnoiuXb335gVr5wIQjIjIZBUUFfagE4F7e89DwvnoGjhkyYh46ILFklMTCsIs8PDyG3SF2IUXzS60yu1t7QL49NY7FoxR/s1600-h/happiness_quotes_graphics_01.gif"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428724250915931858" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 256px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh7Ebl6cm1Mmu2B1F_TdzhiYbftT3GlFjufOuOnAdWEJMOh2ACRnoiuXb335gVr5wIQjIjIZBUUFfagE4F7e89DwvnoGjhkyYh46ILFklMTCsIs8PDyG3SF2IUXzS60yu1t7QL49NY7FoxR/s320/happiness_quotes_graphics_01.gif" border="0" /></a><br />More than often, to many of us, New Year’s Eve implies partying or spending time with friends or family. However, not everyone would endorse spending New Year’s Eve at home, and that too in the company of their grandparents or someone as old as their grandparents….. I have a totally different story to tell. 1st Jan 2010, was a terrific start to my new year. I stayed home and was extremely blessed to spend it in the company of the teacher who initiated me to the Veena – Smt. Bhagirathi Narayanaswamy (Mami), and her aunt (who I call Chitti).<br /><br />The zeal and enthusiasm for life that chitti has is stupendous. At the age of 82….she made the atmosphere so lively and energetic….solely by her enthusiasm and eagerness to try everything and be involved in everything. 31st December night was a simple affair and all we did was talked and talked more…, over a cup of ice cream. 1st January was however extremely eventful.<br />We went window shopping, had north Indian Thali and finished with Falooda and Ice-cream. Every shop in the mall had the privilege of our visit. Mind you – we did not even spare the road side Candy Floss and were pretty disappointed to know that we were a little too late, as the pop-corn guy had shut shop for the day. Mami at 75 was no less and was equally energetic to run all round the city to shop for a zillion things under the sun. Be it Vada Pav or a mid-night cup of coffee…they were game for everything!<br /><br />They stayed with me for a week, and every moment, every conversation that we had is something that I would cherish. Their energy level was extremely contagious and simply by their innocent talks and questions, they had made the environment so dynamic and cheerful! What touched me more than anything was the honestly and genuineness which was so evident in almost everything that they did. Simplicity was the essence of their life and it was the fundamental principle that governed almost everything under the sun. They sure did have their share of issues, but the ability to wish well for everyone, added charm to their personality. Looking at the manner in which we – the present generation seem to be moving, I cannot help but wonder at times, whether we would actually enjoy life the way they did. Now that I have written, the above statement, I am sure; I would have people looking daggers at me saying it is an extremely personal and a subjective perspective. Often we have people trying to justify that they are enjoying their lives to the fullest. But, after giving due consideration to the element of subjectivity and other similar arguments, if one sits to think honestly, he/she would realize that we more than often tend to miss out on the smaller and the more beautiful things in life.<br /><br />A week back, mom and I were having a quiet late dinner, when Chitti called. It was around 10 .45 P.m. and we were wondering if everything was ok, as it was not too normal to receive a call from her that late. But she had called, simply to say that she was missing the mid-night cup of coffee. Though it was hardly a week that they had left, I couldn’t help but feel overwhelmed with nostalgia.<br />It was an experience, a realization, a learning experience. I began my new year – experiencing the fact that - It is never too late to enjoy your childhood!!!<br /><br />And before I forget – Wish you all a happy, peaceful and a prosperous new year!!!</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-49253947258681673882009-11-27T20:02:00.014+00:002009-11-28T17:07:47.929+00:00Dad - my guiding force!!!<div style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(102, 51, 255);"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">You walk beside them</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />You feel.....they have always been there</span></span> <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfvtvBC9zBT8C8TwDvBRMdtU_vJcqgsem6ZJ-l5WKApbhlzTIQOxAlgcsXQBR4YQx0GuIazeQ45wEKgoZDD5VW2avvnGLKOc-1Zwn1Uu-6NdB_27e6FJBZarzwgf_wk9Kc3W7xpJD5HP7y/s1600/father-daughter.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; width: 181px; float: right; height: 256px; cursor: pointer;" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5408880329497607650" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjfvtvBC9zBT8C8TwDvBRMdtU_vJcqgsem6ZJ-l5WKApbhlzTIQOxAlgcsXQBR4YQx0GuIazeQ45wEKgoZDD5VW2avvnGLKOc-1Zwn1Uu-6NdB_27e6FJBZarzwgf_wk9Kc3W7xpJD5HP7y/s320/father-daughter.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Yet..... when you meet them,</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />You realize they never meant to be there</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br /><br />Says my dear old dad</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);">"That does not mean they are bad,</span></span></span><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);"><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">just because it makes you sad</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">It sure does make you mad</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">atleast you know where you stand........</span></span></span> "<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;">"You ought to be glad</span></span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />For where you stand</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;">As life may not always be fair</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;">So bury the potholes with fresh sand</span></span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;">Difficult as I try...</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;">It does make a difference....</span></span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />To look beyond people for what they are</span></span><br /><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;">for perception is from what you hear</span></span> <span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />which may be different from what they are</span></span><span style="color: rgb(153, 153, 0);">"</span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Ignorant about a zillion things</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />Innocent about a few more</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Somehow with dad around</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />Everything lost seems found</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br /><br />A guidng force....filled with cheer.</span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">A support system ....always near</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />Reassurance ....crushing all my fear</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />A soulful figure.....so pure and clear</span></span><br /><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">Dynamic, Strong, fearless, honest</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />Simplicity and intelligence at its best</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />I simply cannot cease to thank God</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />For having blessed me with someone so dear!</span></span> <span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;"><br />Pa - you simp</span></span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF0z_u9ziWVkkbdI5D1Kb2IvPqNOSlrP9PViL7uQoGynqWQPvt8gizOQxdsMeoK0wZElLCw6iLKt29CrwAc2zuTVlouDGJ2aaliKPEhN4gz3xrRp-tOlAPoA4ya1TXy8kzoTnrjzQlZhMc/s1600/ssp.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 175px; height: 54px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjF0z_u9ziWVkkbdI5D1Kb2IvPqNOSlrP9PViL7uQoGynqWQPvt8gizOQxdsMeoK0wZElLCw6iLKt29CrwAc2zuTVlouDGJ2aaliKPEhN4gz3xrRp-tOlAPoA4ya1TXy8kzoTnrjzQlZhMc/s320/ssp.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5409202262823042530" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-style: italic;">ly are the Best!!!!!</span></span> </div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-31640742471309478982009-11-10T06:40:00.003+00:002009-11-10T06:47:17.206+00:00Life…at its best<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigptShDH-hdKaU1VJ-S7PsZuIqsg0BjytMElllaurpKCJu7Mi0UurKogRSqrDSJY-sr5dY9p8RJs3dBLRT_zP8GaVx7v-RsDxHk9vmIRHUJGdhO8wRfejMgmn4iejltcZCkXvHLbVcyKI_/s1600-h/bird.jpg"><strong><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5402362534415530514" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 229px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 240px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigptShDH-hdKaU1VJ-S7PsZuIqsg0BjytMElllaurpKCJu7Mi0UurKogRSqrDSJY-sr5dY9p8RJs3dBLRT_zP8GaVx7v-RsDxHk9vmIRHUJGdhO8wRfejMgmn4iejltcZCkXvHLbVcyKI_/s320/bird.jpg" border="0" /></strong></a><strong><br /></strong><div><span style="color:#339999;"><em><span style="font-size:85%;"><strong>A parchment….she finds,<br />Starts working on her mind<br />Rewinding her time<br />Held her through the grind<br /><br />Holding it with a firm hand<br />Least important though it may be<br />Not wanting to leave it behind.<br />Ironical as it may seem,<br /><br />She does not want to let go of it...<br />For all the joy it means.<br />She does not want to let go of it..<br />For the memories it helps her re live<br /><br />Many such parchments in their distinct way<br />Help her live life, her way<br />Guide her and show her the right way<br />To make her what she is today<br /><br />The beauty being the love<br />For every tread moved<br />Filled with unflinching conviction<br />Happy with her life lived.<br /><br />Her mind filled with emotions<br />Swaying in different ways<br />She eagerly looks forward<br />To yet another wonderful day</strong><br /></span></em><br /></span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-47069596825635669902009-10-26T10:47:00.004+00:002009-10-26T10:56:28.550+00:00Puzzled........<div align="justify"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbwMddBpnj17rk5Ifwc_9Wr5cQQOGYUDmuwxhZKOUipuzim4is3ibxo_0Szotbu9m0KtENTIIcAD7KvEWM1RTwz6wI1H-gqPutmEfHFCr2PBe6xRat_xRZza60gCxrZXiHEbu8T0IcXPBi/s1600-h/puzzled_by_smashinggirl.jpg"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5396859318861994562" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 197px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhbwMddBpnj17rk5Ifwc_9Wr5cQQOGYUDmuwxhZKOUipuzim4is3ibxo_0Szotbu9m0KtENTIIcAD7KvEWM1RTwz6wI1H-gqPutmEfHFCr2PBe6xRat_xRZza60gCxrZXiHEbu8T0IcXPBi/s320/puzzled_by_smashinggirl.jpg" border="0" /></span></a><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#993300;">I wonder many a times....what is it that makes us what we are today....At times I feel that Life is an Empty book and we get all the freedom to scribble what we want in its pages. In other words, we are given the freedom of choice. And we are the sole reason behind where we are today.<br />At the same time, I contradict myself by saying that we are here with a purpose and a reason, which has been predefined. The purpose of life would here be to be able to successfully fulfil the objective or reason. But here again blessed are the ones who manage to identify the purpose! However what about those who fail to do so.<br />Going back to my first point of view...... one could define his purpose on his own. Maybe we have the choice to do that as well. But here again, I fail to understand if everyone has a choice, then why isnt everyone at the same level or the same platform.Why are some people so gifted and some not so lucky? Why is it that we have so much of poverty which has reached a stage and state wherein there are just idealistic talks about eradicating it and no concrete action....and even if there is action, no concrete outcome. Why is it that there are small children, who have horrible things like leprosy, cancer, AIDs as their perpetual companion, when all they have is a clean soul coupled with genuine innocence. Moreover, why is it that people who have managed to commit horredous crimes, are still living as if they rule the world!<br />People from different religions haveing different faith would have different justifications to give me. But here is where I face a dilema as to the purpose of one's life. Choice here no doubt works well. But then if choice was it, then it would imply that God has been unfair ( which I cannot believe). So I am half heartedly forced to agree to the fact that there is a purpose for each and everyone and the best that I could make it out to be is to serve mankind........</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com23tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-90818129628952850162009-08-27T16:47:00.004+01:002009-08-27T17:04:23.029+01:00Time.....Distance ......A realization!<span style="color:#336666;"></span><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="font-size:85%;color:#336666;">I happened to be reading a few quotes on some random website and I came across some statements which seem so true!<br /><span style="color:#996633;"><strong><em>"Time is the longest distance between two places</em></strong> "- <strong><span style="font-size:78%;">Tennessee Williams<br /></span><em>"Everywhere is walking distance if you have time</em></strong> "-<span style="font-size:78%;"> <strong>Stephen Wright</strong></span></span> </span></span><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="font-size:85%;color:#336666;"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 149px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 132px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5374672427064491666" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiG0NPxrn2m6mAX5Rk9YrkClxQGpyj00hSvxFAZ5r4dVmKRqgKqf9cIouIfYy5grBp0CH5sp2ZNfCJ1grl2cpz_iLq3JhuVYolfI5tYIgzGvG2gtVEgog8f5296MLuyPPXkiaBg1lPwHSlU/s320/opener.jpg" /><br />Ironical statements. But I somehow see a lot of truth in them. But yet another important thing that I realized is that time, at the right time is also very important, because as rightly said by <strong><span style="color:#996633;"><em>Oq Mandino<br /></em></span></strong></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color:#336666;"><span style="color:#996633;"><strong><em>"There is an immeasurable distance between late and too late"<br /></em></strong></span><br />I started pondering on how correlated the above statements could be. They seem to be true in most aspects. Another ironical thing is that distance gives you space to think and introspect, but at the same time, you happen to lose out on time. If you are sensible, you realize that the extent of time the distance was worth, if not then you possibly in the back of your mind start to think whether it was worth it all. It probably would take you a while to match my wavelength on this one, because this is something which takes time - to assimilate, absorb and relate to. But I am sure that you would agree with the Chinese proverb which I came across:<br /></span><span style="color:#996633;"><strong><em>"Distance tests a horse's strength. Time reveals a persons character"</em></strong></span></span></span><span style="color:#336666;"> </span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-81841016120504334742009-08-06T11:09:00.009+01:002009-08-06T17:20:32.169+01:00VT/CST/ Local Trains – A shade in the palette of Mumbai<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1lkvxI8srbhJayUFoppEWdMRYgaRf3RlZOwPTRwQyw0TuZE8n5nkCTxEnOfu3LRbuEVP54EUtNTmk8tmDI0ofTItwY4D34Kz72sFEJdNtiFk-ZEE00Igv-aFaMDSx63uB53I2yf90kygY/s1600-h/123"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366799066806862290" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right; width: 300px; height: 171px;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi1lkvxI8srbhJayUFoppEWdMRYgaRf3RlZOwPTRwQyw0TuZE8n5nkCTxEnOfu3LRbuEVP54EUtNTmk8tmDI0ofTItwY4D34Kz72sFEJdNtiFk-ZEE00Igv-aFaMDSx63uB53I2yf90kygY/s320/123" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;" >The sight at CST (VT station) during the peek hours – 8 30 to 10 am in the morning and 6 30 to 8 in the evening….is a must watch for any Mumbaite!<br />One can just stand and manage to kill time by simply watching people and their mannerisms. People have absolutely No time at their disposal…You would find the most versatile combination scurrying across the platform and <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiX9YKJcfL54GxlcmRnwoAgmLfO5OqeSWxP_JnfMdTPesx3J-fNY-qZK8nJOqXsEfa8kxTynOOvTHJP5ifc-3yE0Jgzo9H1dfLDybIJ2SuVFTAoMrEEbazxqXtZvkF2RNGIDBfzNfkyNzG1/s1600-h/593394360_f1ce70d536.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366791722184298994" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right; width: 190px; height: 193px;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiX9YKJcfL54GxlcmRnwoAgmLfO5OqeSWxP_JnfMdTPesx3J-fNY-qZK8nJOqXsEfa8kxTynOOvTHJP5ifc-3yE0Jgzo9H1dfLDybIJ2SuVFTAoMrEEbazxqXtZvkF2RNGIDBfzNfkyNzG1/s320/593394360_f1ce70d536.jpg" border="0" /></a>rushing to their workplace or on their way back home.<br />From the elderly, to the working class and the collegians, VT station is a place which is always bustling with activity. It is real good fun to watch and observe people here.</span> <div><div><br /><div><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;" >The never ending queue to take the special bus – (Bus number 1) to Nariman Point, and the squabble between the drivers of the share taxi’s….the long queue at the ticket counters at all hours and the mad frenzy to jump into the train before even having arrived on the platform – this place is indeed one of the most dynamic locations of Mumbai.<br />There is so much more to this place…the beautiful architecture is something no ordinary man would miss.<br />The ‘chaat’ that you get in the subway is not bad either. And how can I forget those two old ladies whom I see everyday – one selling snacks and the other selling Bhel – usually on the first two platforms. McDonalds/Pizza Hut Vs. road side sandwich wale – both seem to have a good number of takers.<br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhm_pm1rlc5YCNO7kbiZK4zfRZZYSBkuLmuQDZUgthHOmkrL3ZP7vP5DGKyu2TvPevZcM5z7igBOlkUYD3bPGip8JEAXBO17ZnIrc1dkUKhkD30x5eCaqjPZXXBb5KGHh7_EpGwdgBfgvEo/s1600-h/joints_91562733_85275769_68197405.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5366792240588840834" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right; width: 295px; height: 147px;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhm_pm1rlc5YCNO7kbiZK4zfRZZYSBkuLmuQDZUgthHOmkrL3ZP7vP5DGKyu2TvPevZcM5z7igBOlkUYD3bPGip8JEAXBO17ZnIrc1dkUKhkD30x5eCaqjPZXXBb5KGHh7_EpGwdgBfgvEo/s320/joints_91562733_85275769_68197405.jpg" border="0" /></a><br />My eyes invariably tend to notice the nice/ not so nice, weird, funny and sometimes ‘atrocious ‘dressing sense of people. One thing that has always amused me is the typical ladies wearing Short skirts (Who invariably make me feel that I have way too many clothes on!) They look smart, no doubt and I totally agree to the fact that they have their own distinct classy look. What amuses me is when a few say they wear short skirts because they are comfortable during the rains! Yes totally agreed! They definitely are. But talking of comfort, I do not really understand where high pointed heels and rains go together. I think you simply stick to the fact that you want to be and like to be a little more glamorous rather than coming up with any illogical explanation. And more importantly why someone would really want to justify his clothing unless and until he/she is way too conscious or feels out of place in it<br />But on a lighter note, it’s completely hilarious to watch these ladies who wear skirts to feel comfortable during the rains, struggle to walk in their pointed heels. : D<br />Even the Shops in the subway, selling all possible things that you can come up with seem to be doing good business.<br /><br />And how can I forget what really prompted me to write this post – VT station/ Local trains would be next on the list when it comes to social networking – after Face book/ Orkut. I really have lost count of the number of old friends/ acquaintances; I have met in the last couple of months. I revisit my school days/ college days every now and then. Courtesy – VT Station/ local Trains.</span></div><div><span style="color: rgb(153, 51, 153);"><span style="font-size:85%;">I really cannot help but wonder – have the terrorist attacks changed the perception of CST in the minds of people ? I really don’t think so. People are moving on and CST still continues to be the heart of Bombay.</span><br /></span> </div></div></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-2975650735030215502009-07-31T08:00:00.005+01:002009-07-31T08:28:58.219+01:00VEENA – What makes it so Special?<div align="justify"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#006600;">I often have my friends asking me what is so unique about the Veena. As a child I could just say, that I liked the nadam (Sound) and the instrument fascinated me. Over a period of years, and even today as I continue to learn and play my Veenai, I started to become more curious about the instrument and did my bit of reading, research (which is a continual process)<br />I have penned down in simple terms what makes the Veena so special.<br /><br />The Veena has <strong>four main strings</strong> and <strong>three other strings</strong> on the side. This may be compared in its own way.<br />There are four directions, four Vedas. </span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEia3YrCqRgHOJWbMyW9VQZ4O2fiLGrMAMPCTxlVZ_xsWBcEU3FFesYz7RR92MccMPC2NgtlKJyedYNJgo3AwxSvtpyCSwDo6cVRwstOzkdRPnYcEC4aisSrruBMVwynBwi0z8vM2sPsxZNW/s1600-h/Veena_chart.jpg"></a><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#006600;">There are Four Stages of life – Dharma, Artha, Kama, moksha. </span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEia3YrCqRgHOJWbMyW9VQZ4O2fiLGrMAMPCTxlVZ_xsWBcEU3FFesYz7RR92MccMPC2NgtlKJyedYNJgo3AwxSvtpyCSwDo6cVRwstOzkdRPnYcEC4aisSrruBMVwynBwi0z8vM2sPsxZNW/s1600-h/Veena_chart.jpg"></a><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#006600;">In Christianity there is the cross which is four sided, and there are four Gospels.<br />The four main strings of the Veena may be compared to the above. </span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcPMobxcGiIL2dBTwkSPZtgXbqrZGMJVENbLY0Nl2gyHXb5JsUFdR9TJw-PNpb16bJbof-KTofhChPafUN_o-gQUpBCsto8Bd0xuw9W4dmJ_OZwrS7TG-toGlJrNfNDrP7_fvUCrdEz3q2/s1600-h/Veena_chart.jpg"></a><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgcPMobxcGiIL2dBTwkSPZtgXbqrZGMJVENbLY0Nl2gyHXb5JsUFdR9TJw-PNpb16bJbof-KTofhChPafUN_o-gQUpBCsto8Bd0xuw9W4dmJ_OZwrS7TG-toGlJrNfNDrP7_fvUCrdEz3q2/s1600-h/Veena_chart.jpg"></a><br /><span style="color:#006600;"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="font-size:85%;">The three strings on the side help to maintain rhythm and need to be strummed accordingly. They may be compared to Brahma – The creator, Vishnu – The Protector and Maheshwara – the destroyer. They may also be compared to the Christianity doctrine of Trinity – which talks about the unity of father, Son and the Holy Spirit in one God Head.<br /><br />To put in very simple terms, the Strings of the Veena symbolize Balance and reiterate the fact that a balance between the Body, mind and Soul is very important and essential for any human being to lead a spiritually enriching life</span>.<br /><br /></span></span><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#006600;">There are <strong>24 frets on the Veena</strong>. The Gayatri mantra is said to have 24 syllables. Each fret of the Veena may be compared with a syllable of the Gayatri Mantra.<br />They may be compared with the vertebrae of the Spinal Cord. </span><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNlhPY2XpXmnDUBFVoTQeeVygCy4sS_-omIR6GPx1W6l0bEhmBN06KhVSkv-PE4kusjzXDh4nwTpwLciwksUHCRHAD3SKEFiliPPFlR_jDiLbkmtY-PUUQ22fc2AZmAQO89mbW0PE3xeKR/s1600-h/Veena_chart.jpg"><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#006600;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5364517044813561394" style="FLOAT: right; MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 208px; CURSOR: hand; HEIGHT: 320px" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhNlhPY2XpXmnDUBFVoTQeeVygCy4sS_-omIR6GPx1W6l0bEhmBN06KhVSkv-PE4kusjzXDh4nwTpwLciwksUHCRHAD3SKEFiliPPFlR_jDiLbkmtY-PUUQ22fc2AZmAQO89mbW0PE3xeKR/s320/Veena_chart.jpg" border="0" /></span></a><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#006600;">There is <strong>Yaali Mugham</strong> (dragon face) on one end of the Veena. It represents the triumph of Good over Evil. There is a story behind the face of the dragon, which I will definitely share soon.<br /><br />The <strong>Biradai</strong> (the big screws used to tune the Veena) represent the characteristic of ‘Control’. If any biradai gives way in the course of playing the veena, the tuning is affected and the actual harmony/ divinity is disrupted.<br />Hence it is very essential to ensure that the Veena is perfectly tuned.<br /><br />By now I probably would have atleast a few who would agree that the Veena is something very divine and any person who gets an opportunity to be associated with the Veena is blessed!<br /><br />This post can simply go on and I assure you that I will definitely do my bit in posting more on this divine instrument which I consider to be a part of my family.</span></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com17tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-36612914741274778832009-06-26T21:06:00.005+01:002009-07-12T18:42:02.359+01:00Adios Mr. Jackson!<div align="justify"><span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 255);"><span style="font-family:georgia;">I had taken a vow that I would not fill up my blog with News articles or anything that any regular bloggers would post. But somehow I could not stop myself when I heard that the King of Pop has departed for his heavenly abode. People associate Micheal Jackson with a variety of issues –positive or not so positive.<br />But to me, he is one of the greatest ever musicians to be born and there is no doubt that he has contributed immensely to the popularity of the genre of Pop Music. The Song “Heal the world” from his album - ‘Dangerous’ has been my all time favourite and as I write, I</span><span style="font-family:georgia;"> cannot help but remember the beautiful lyrics that had been penned down :</span></span><span style="font-family:georgia;"> </span></div><div align="justify"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglH05XNQxqZFy_PX728ewA32XerfLFd-Z4Z94SPT45VNKJ7tQBlbfK6Anx5o_NrzXvmRHhMi3TmumkSfWJ3vKNdxJrSMXZNJjthrmq8TfYhTnFziEgoYxe4Ala9wTuriswTDsnSQsoVqmJ/s1600-h/untitled.bmp"><span style="font-family:georgia;"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5351732194871319970" style="margin: 0px 0px 10px 10px; float: right; width: 192px; height: 260px;" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEglH05XNQxqZFy_PX728ewA32XerfLFd-Z4Z94SPT45VNKJ7tQBlbfK6Anx5o_NrzXvmRHhMi3TmumkSfWJ3vKNdxJrSMXZNJjthrmq8TfYhTnFziEgoYxe4Ala9wTuriswTDsnSQsoVqmJ/s320/untitled.bmp" border="0" /></span></a><br /><em><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:georgia;" >Heal the world </span></em></div><div><em><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:georgia;" >Make it a better place </span></em></div><div><em><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:georgia;" >For you and for me and the entire human race </span></em></div><div><em><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:georgia;" >There are people dying If you care enough for the living </span></em></div><div><em><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);font-family:georgia;" >Make a better place for You and for me……….<br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255); font-family: arial;">I was so inspired by this song, that I named my blog after it</span><span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);"></span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(51, 102, 255);">!</span><br /></span></em></div><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"></span><br /><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"></span></p><p><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 153);"></span></p><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);">I pray to the Lord for his soul to rest in peace.</span><br /><br /></span><span style="font-family:georgia;"></span><strong><span style="color: rgb(51, 102, 255);font-family:georgia;" >Adios Mr. Jackson. May your music keep the bells in heaven tinkling!</span></strong><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-38530626626060849622009-06-18T08:24:00.005+01:002009-06-18T18:01:47.306+01:00God Exists!<span style="font-size:85%;color:#006600;">I would first like to apologize for the title to this post - but I could not think of anything better. Maybe you would understand as you read on.</span><span style="font-family:georgia;font-size:85%;color:#006600;">I have often come across people who say God does not exist. I have also come across a few people who ask me to prove to them that God Exists. And how can I possibly forget yet another category – those who say My God – or to be more precise only the God I believe in exists and the others are fictitious!<br />What surprises me the most is that the human race can actually question the existence of the supernatural power- that too when the fact stands true that everything that one looks at, feels, does or experiences has a direct correlation to GOD!<br />Which Human being would have thought of creating a world as beautiful as the one we live in. Whether at work or play, coming up with innovations is not everyone’s cup of tea. But at the same time,even the most creative person on Earth would not possess 1/10000000 ….. of the creativity that God possesses –<br />which enables him to give the gift of life to Soo many human beings, animals….living beings – who are unique, look different, possess different characteristics, and have something different in store for them in life….. We notice that new born babies tend to smile in their sleep. It is such a beautiful sight – I have heard that babies smile because they are able to experience and feel the presence of God – when I think of this I am at times envious of them. A baby has no ill feelings, and is pure at heart – and so can easily feel the presence of God. But why is it that as it grows older, things tend to change?? That is the basic problem. The pursuit for materialistic happiness has made us so crazy that we have forgotten that one person who cares for us and loves us irrespective of how we are.<br />All I can say is that I feel sorry for those who think God does not exist and I hope and pray for them to realize the truth.<br />I read the following quote which I would like everyone to think about:</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="color:#006600;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><strong><span style="color:#996633;">Once you accept the existence of God - however you define him however you explain your relationship to him - then you are caught forever with his presence in the centre of all things. -</span></strong><strong> <span style="color:#996633;">Morris West</span></strong> </span></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;color:#006600;"></span><br /><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 320px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5348567801580308306" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9hLt83t9Pr2zrPVenoWScnYK6cmWcVzWrK51XmhaFx7mAR7bSmi6ONd_Zc22-k0apJXryAknM94uIpHFjVYCuaCaj_IVrmd-phlbAIPvRLhci-vTQISgOLUWKGNX14AArUSIj8C2_7HrU/s320/Divine%2520Retribution.jpg" /><span style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="color:#006600;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><br />For those who want proof – I have just one line – Open your eyes wide and look around, the proof is all around you.<br />Coming to the last category – I feel sad for those people, who like to discriminate and fight over the name of religion. Every religion may have its share of Do’s and Don’ts, but I firmly believe that God is one, and people should try to attain Moksha by virtue of honesty, sincerity and good deeds, rather than pointing fingers and smirking at what others say or believe. Everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion, and I think rather than questioning and squabbling about it, it would be nice if people to follow what they believe in and not create rifts in the name of Religion.</span></span></span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-5951020393759347622009-04-27T21:23:00.002+01:002009-04-27T21:33:55.177+01:00Reflecting.........<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFbM_nj4POqdzdP7Q2ceX6RzVckprZhUGemdg_klSA792R8gICrs9BidzwFgB1WTkwCn5nBw69rfHGhnsu8E6aJ_dPCsVaNLIi4hXjMcUre3F4kDiSLdVKhrV6F-oUI10MSyma2yuCVE6E/s1600-h/b.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; WIDTH: 236px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 320px; CURSOR: pointer" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5329470309569627058" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjFbM_nj4POqdzdP7Q2ceX6RzVckprZhUGemdg_klSA792R8gICrs9BidzwFgB1WTkwCn5nBw69rfHGhnsu8E6aJ_dPCsVaNLIi4hXjMcUre3F4kDiSLdVKhrV6F-oUI10MSyma2yuCVE6E/s320/b.jpg" /></a><br /><span style="COLOR: rgb(51,51,51);font-size:85%;" >It has been a long while that I have posted anything and I would blame it on the fact that I needed some time off - to do some random thinking as I just got back home a couple of weeks back after a thoroughly enriching experience of two years at hostel.<br /><br />The most astonishing fact being that thinking was one thing that I did effectively when at hostel, as it gave me a lot of time to myself and yet at the same time kept me busy. But I find myself doing it even more now.<br /><br />I would surely say it has been one hell of an experience.<br />It started with the cultural shock and then came the lifestyle shock.<br />People seemed to have literally nothing to do and yet again at times, they were too busy ( busy doing what?? Perceptions on that is something totally subjective....so I shall refrain from commenting on that)<br />At times you feel homesick, but then at times you feel that you would miss the times you have had. You would despise certain people yet you would feel that you would miss them in future.<br /><br />You would find that someone has a problem with you all the time and the problem gets weirder with the person. Not to mention, that you too are a weirdo to someone else. Its mutual...<br /><br />You are excited about something, and try to put in your best, yet at the same time you feel life would have been better without it but then, you also have to say that you are glad that you got to do that particular thing.<br /><br />It is said that money can change relationships, here I would say competition, ego and the fact of being together (an overdose of each other - if I may term it that way) possibly changes relationships.<br />Emotions swaying tempers rising....does catch you off guard.....but wading through it successfully is something which makes you look at life differently.<br />It is so strange that at times we hate certain things but yet when given an option to live life again afresh, we choose not to SHIFT + Delete it.<br /><br />You get a reality check…..about yourself, perceptions, people...you tend to realize how fortunate you have been and how not so fortunate the other one has been.<br /><br />In the end, at times it may turn out to be the end of something and the beginning of the same thing with the same person.<br /><br />Its strange as, even though I get nostalgic looking at photographs, videos etc., I do not know what exactly time has in store for what has been built over the two years.<br />I do not know for sure whether I miss my hostel life, but it has given me a lot of things to think about and it would definitely take me a lifetime to sit and analyze every aspect of it…and I probably would keep posting about it for a while now and then.<br />To sum up for now - it indeed was a Puzzling, Enjoyable, Memorable and a very big learning experience!</span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-86506556421637619942009-03-04T06:08:00.008+00:002009-03-04T13:02:45.498+00:00Human Behaviour!! 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hobbies – Analyzing people and their Behaviour. I have been trying to figure out how people respond to various scenarios and trust me it is both interesting and amusing. I have listed below a few positive and “not so “ positive facts – I think you would agree to them. </span><span style="color: rgb(148, 54, 52);font-size:85%;" ><span style="">:-)</span></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 95, 145);font-size:85%;" >The underlying factor which I think prompts people to react to situations is the feeling of insecurity – which makes them cynical towards everything under the sun. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 95, 145);font-size:85%;" >The few who choose to stay away from all controversies/events<span style=""> </span>are either not interested, or have lost interest, they do not fit in or simply have other better things to do.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(54, 95, 145);font-size:85%;" >The ones who manage to have fun at the worst times could be considered the optimistic lot. A part of them however are simply trying to fake, to put on a jovial face – for the purpose of the so called networking and being in the good books of all.</span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(192, 80, 77);font-size:85%;" >At the same time there are also a few<b style=""> </b>who are genuine and do things because they want to do them and not simply for the lauds which it would bring them.<b style=""> </b>A few, who quietly listen to everything and do not react because if they do, it would strain relations and disrupt the harmony.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><b style=""><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);"><o:p> </o:p></span></b></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);font-size:85%;" >A few have different rules for themselves and for the others- goes to show that they maintain double standards, and do not really give a damn about the others.</span><span style="font-size:85%;"> </span><span style="color: rgb(192, 80, 77);font-size:85%;" >A few who do their work and do it well, yet remain in the not so good books of the others due to varied reasons – jealousy, mind blocks etc.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);font-size:85%;" >A few try going into the defensive mode even before being asked for an explanation -<span style=""> </span>shows that they are trying to play around and are freaking scared of getting caught on the wrong foot.Some pretend to be your/ others chuddy buddy, and a reality check is often a rude shock. These people generally have no reason to pretend( as far as I can comprehend ), but just do it for the heck of it.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);font-size:85%;" >A few who take everything on their Ego and are completely deemed unfit to be reasoned out with.<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);font-size:85%;" >A few who think they are always right and will simply refuse to even consider hearing out <span style=""> </span>what the other person has to say. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);font-size:85%;" >The worst among the lot in my opinion are the ones who have the brains but will not think for themselves. These are the ones who are totally lost and simply need to be directed to a better line of thinking. </span><span style="font-size:85%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaogtZyJOqO2xbIwqPEfyEeGKR4-o8zARqwkeCQIrXw_kZWpt3NNNuKJz44ixTae0prjYZ2ZMY96ai3ruuuJV3kBV18ad-_MkkmujHPBE7svHIil40IWi36xCVzYWnKea8U03CjTv0Dme1/s1600-h/Confused.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 220px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiaogtZyJOqO2xbIwqPEfyEeGKR4-o8zARqwkeCQIrXw_kZWpt3NNNuKJz44ixTae0prjYZ2ZMY96ai3ruuuJV3kBV18ad-_MkkmujHPBE7svHIil40IWi36xCVzYWnKea8U03CjTv0Dme1/s320/Confused.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5309213621969821298" border="0" /></a></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(192, 80, 77);font-size:85%;" >On the contrary a few who have the ability to put themselves in the shoes of the other and really help them figure out what is best for them. They have the capability to give an unbiased view to anyone and are generally held with high regards in the eyes of most. But then it is difficult to understand why would someone want to do that. Here again the compliments/backbiting/ comments would begin becuase of the perception that the person has in the mind of the other. <span style="color: rgb(51, 51, 51); font-weight: bold;">Confused ehh?? think about it</span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(192, 80, 77);"><span style="font-size:85%;">A lot mentioned above is not too pleasant but then if you notice carefully you would realize that, at all places a combination of all the above mentioned is usually the winning combination – which is quite weird considering the fact , everyone wants to be liked and everyone dislikes the other for the above “not so “ positive characteristics.</span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(192, 80, 77);"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;font-family:georgia;"><b style=""><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);">Well so that takes me back to the start<span style=""> </span>- </span></b><b style=""><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);"><span style="">:( </span></span></b><b style=""><span style="color: rgb(79, 129, 189);"><o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(95, 73, 122);">Human </span></b><b style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(118, 146, 60);">Behaviour</span></b><b style="font-family:georgia;">!! <span style="color: rgb(79, 98, 40);">Err</span>……..<span style="color: rgb(49, 132, 155);">it’s</span> <span style="color: rgb(227, 108, 10);"><span style="font-size:130%;">complicated</span> </span><span style="color: rgb(84, 141, 212);">stuff!! </span></b><b style="font-family:georgia;"><span style="color: rgb(84, 141, 212);"><span style="">:-)</span></span></b><b style=""><span style=";font-family:";" ><o:p></o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><b style=""><span style=";font-family:";" ><o:p> </o:p></span></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style=";font-family:";" ><o:p> </o:p></span></p>
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this post……I have done it now because I think there is no harm and more so, I felt the need to post it.. Every year till the age of sixteen,<span style=""> </span>I used go on a holiday for about a fortnight<span style=""> </span>to my native place- <span style=""> </span>Srirangam – a beautiful town in the Trichy District of Tamil Nadu. Last May I went back for a couple of weeks ( after five and a half years!) , to spend the weekend <span style=""> </span>out there.( will post about that trip sometime soon) <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 51, 51);"><span style=";font-family:";font-size:100%;" >There used to be this girl (4 or 5 years younger to me). Every time I went there, she used to come and meet me and talk to me. ‘Akka’( meaning elder sister) was how she used to call me. A bright and a chirpy child is how I remember her to be. This time when I went there she was nowhere to be seen. I was curious, I tried spot her but in vain. Something from within prompted me to not ask for her, and so I didn’t. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 51, 51);"><span style=";font-family:";font-size:100%;" >I met the others at her place and took leave. While returning, I happened<span style=""> </span>to ask my cousin brother <span style=""> </span>about her and her whereabouts. He grinned and asked me which world was I in. He told me that she was sitting right in front of me in the hall! And that she was the girl who was pregnant!</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjadu0PE5Ih5lr4vzPkSxCdhNvHVdarbbUdbfh9RNp5Snv9l2XZMCOkKZ3H65Pbfrj5Yd-2eICg4b2S9AKSMDNs30raEZNQKq1i4LYUiqrTZ5xQhSv2ibA4HmY_DaYc9aXLXKLVm-4UbuWa/s1600-h/child+marriage.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjadu0PE5Ih5lr4vzPkSxCdhNvHVdarbbUdbfh9RNp5Snv9l2XZMCOkKZ3H65Pbfrj5Yd-2eICg4b2S9AKSMDNs30raEZNQKq1i4LYUiqrTZ5xQhSv2ibA4HmY_DaYc9aXLXKLVm-4UbuWa/s320/child+marriage.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5301643981115927186" border="0" /></a></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 51, 51);"><span style=";font-family:";font-size:100%;" >I was taken aback. I felt really sorry for that little girl. Her parents had apparently gotten <span style=""> </span>her married to some guy who was their relative. <span style=""> </span><b style="">I, from no stretch of mind have the authority to question anything or comment on anything.</b> But I seriously felt that somewhere down it was not quite right!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 51, 51);"><span style=";font-family:";font-size:100%;" >The sad part was that that girl showed a lot of zeal and enthusiasm to learn, and her enthusiasm considering the fact that she did not have much exposure to various aspects of life, was commendable. I understand/presume that it probably was the family situation which was not conducive for her to pursue her education; Whatever be the reason - getting married at 17 or 18 ( or maybe she was younger) and with a child!!.The thing that was more disheartening was that the poor girl was obviously not too happy and comfortable . I am quite certain that she probably had no clue as to what she was going through .Today when I think about the whole thing I cannot do much but hope that this scenario changes and the outlook of parents change. I could not help thinking<span style=""> </span>that there could be some point in time in her life when she would grow to regret everything that happened and for all you know simply resign and do the regular household chores – leaving all her dreams and aspirations.<span style=""> </span>She would regret it if she ever manages to realize – If not it would simply imply a waste of potential. <o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; color: rgb(0, 51, 51);"><span style=";font-family:";font-size:100%;" >I cannot help but wonder – To how many girl children, this may be happening today in India!<o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify;"><span style=";font-family:";" ><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 51);">The newspaper’s, Politicans, Media, Law etc. talk about exploitation of children, child marriage and so on and so forth. But what about those girl children who have absolutely no option - those children who are forced to give in to the whims and fancies of their orthodox parents?</span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 51);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 51);">We keep talking about upliftment of the fairer sex, but are reservations the only way? </span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 51);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 51);">There have been a number of debates on this, but I really do not see any major improvement. There certainly should be some efforts directed towards educating parents on </span></span><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 51);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="color: rgb(0, 51, 51);">the importance of instilling the virtue of independence in their girl children – more so in the rural areas</span>. </span><o:p></o:p></span></p> <div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1670772339324764757.post-30325379731320575022009-01-31T18:01:00.005+00:002009-02-01T06:31:06.989+00:00Do you know what it is???<span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >A few days back I was walking back from class and I found this peculiar insect. It resembled a Snail but was different.....the difference being the back had something resembling logs of wood. And just as the snail goes into the shell when troubled, this particular insect did too. I came back to my room, pretty fascinated with what I had seen.</span><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >The same evening , a friend who noticed me observing the insect, clicked a picture and sent i</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">t across. </span></span><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);font-size:100%;" >I have been wondering what the insect is.</span> <br /></div><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);"> <br /><br /><br /></span><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj339HwLBn3mppQb1DpO_umunVhKt1fLE4_9KwHL_qD6QcBWt3T2of62LQrNgv5UhTvVs5fIbvTfdrAvBJk1wdsF0MNuH0Dd93shVnZr5hX4bHZ2AYkF00ZGNuhHQogm52rshjoB0Ogx1XB/s1600-h/Insect.jpg"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj339HwLBn3mppQb1DpO_umunVhKt1fLE4_9KwHL_qD6QcBWt3T2of62LQrNgv5UhTvVs5fIbvTfdrAvBJk1wdsF0MNuH0Dd93shVnZr5hX4bHZ2AYkF00ZGNuhHQogm52rshjoB0Ogx1XB/s320/Insect.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5297523714701705634" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);"> </span><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);"><br /></span><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">I have uploaded a photo of the same above ( Thanks to the friend who clicked it and sent it). If you happen to know what it is , do let me know!!</span><br /><br /><span style="color: rgb(204, 0, 0);">PS. Please do not think I like insects... I detest them.....this one was just out of curiosity .....Call it Fascination!</span><br /></div><div class="blogger-post-footer"><iframe src='http://www.blogadda.com/rate.php?blgid=5044' width='170' height='75' frameborder='0' scrolling='no'></iframe></div>Gayathri http://www.blogger.com/profile/10453601689426240956noreply@blogger.com1